Home of sexual :3

I dunno, sexuality and shit is weird for me to grasp. Gotta love autism. My attitude towards my it is... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. That's not to say I don't care, of course. I care enough to label myself with whatever feels right. But beyond that, it's not something I actively dwell on. I'm well past the days of worrying over whether or not I picked the "right" label. Maybe that's because I've gotten things figured out, for the most part. Nothing here is terribly concrete, beyond the fact that I'm queer.

I'm lucky as far as most queer people go. Very lucky, at that. My family is generally pretty accepting, and I live in a place where people usually don't give me shit. Work is about the only place of concern, and even then, it only comes up once in a blue moon. So I'm luckier than most. Especially after I quit getting into arguments on Twitter. Funny how cutting that out improves one's quality of life tenfold.

Hoard of labels and pretty flags

Pretty basic ones that I think most people will be at least somewhat familiar with. This is what I point to if strangers or coworkers ask about my sexuality. It's not typically a topic that comes up at work regardless, as we usually have more important things on our minds.

Cadesexual: the feeling of having "lost" sexual attraction due to trauma. I'll let my weird vent pieces speak my piece about all that.

Aegosexual: a label for those who enjoy the fantasy/idea of sex, but who have little to no interest in having sex with another individual.

I'm in a bit of a weird gray area. In practice, my girlfriend's the only one I feel confident sleeping with. I suppose I wouldn't be opposed to sex with someone else, if we hit it off. I've tried it before, with mixed results. But even saying all that, if you gave me the choice between sex and 5 hours to draw smut of my OCs... I'm picking the smut. A lot of my sexual fantasies revolve around my OCs and not me. As of late, I've started fantasizing about my kintypes, which is the closest thing I get to fantasizing about myself.

Confused yet? Me too, that's why I settled here and went "eh good enough".

Systemfluid: A label for plural systems, where one's identity may change due to whoever's fronting.

I yap more about system stuff in another shrine. Everything listed before applies to our collective identity. However, individual headmates sometimes have preferences of their own. We're collectively transmasc, but there are plenty of headmates who are still women. Ash and Vriska are the resident lesbians, although Vriska calls herself a bi lesbian to piss off annoying people. Gohan's genderfluid and would get into drag if she had her own body, but he doesn't.

Anyway yeah I felt like making a shrine to show off pretty flags lmao.